My Husband Changed When I Let Go Of Nagging
It seemed like everything my husband was doing, I didn’t like. I was nagging him constantly. And every time I started nagging him, he would look at me with anger or annoyance in his eyes. My husband knew what he had done wrong, but he was not willing to fix it.
A World Worth Living In; Now I Live A True Life
My husband and I fought almost every day because we both had such different perspectives. We even had divorce papers prepared and would say that we didn’t want to live with each other any longer and blamed each other for our problems.
When Looking at the Interpersonal Relationships of Children, It’s Possible to See Their Parents’ Minds
My child was repeating my life. I had made it that way. I was unhappy with my own parents who were very strict, but I became the same as them. I always demanded coldly, “You just have to do what I tell you to do.” Especially with my oldest, it was my inferiority.
7 Years Of Marital Conflicts And A Happy Ending
My wife would say, “I have a life too,” but I couldn’t hear her. Eventually, I was forced to go into business together with her, but we did not achieve good results and our conflict intensified and we eventually ended up going to court over our disagreements.
Divorce Crisis: When I Looked Back At My Life, I Saw The Answer
“Thank you.” “Good job!” “I love you.” I have never heard these words from him. My father never understood me, and he always thought he was right. I didn’t like him and I gradually communicated less and less with him. If I really needed to talk to him about something, I would talk to him without looking him in the eye.
After 50 Years, I Learned To Say, “I Love You, Mom.”
I gradually began shutting my emotions off to my mother. I began to ignore her. I didn’t want to recognize her because I felt that she didn’t recognize me. From that point on, I hated my life. No matter what I did, I wasn’t joyful or happy; my mind became increasingly desolate.
Now I Know How to be Happy
Like any other kids, I always felt depressed about problems; especially in dealing with my parents. I left school to devote myself to music; but I still felt emptiness and I wondered, ‘For what do we come into this world? Why do we work if we are going to die someday?
Starting To Communicate Again With My Child Who Was Always On His Mobile Phone
When my first child reached his adolescent years, he started to have problems. He severed all conversation with me and my husband. He would always be on his phone until late night and even would not sleep, which, of course, led to problems at school.
Returning Home
I started to seek things to fill my void. I read books on self-reflection; went to see a psychologist and also meditated. I learned all of theories and knowledge on how to become and happy. But I was in deep despair for some years, because no matter how I tried, I couldn’t improve to be more free or happy.
I Broke Free From My Framework Of Being Nice
I had never even once been able to show my emotions to my family members and close friends. And I mean no one. Even though somebody made me angry, I always pretended that I was okay, but within, I had a desire for them to understand me.
I Don’t Want To Live This Way Anymore. I’m So Sorry
People think that I’m confident, but I have never really been able to open up to others about the difficulties that I have. Because of this, it became my habit to open my mind to people when I drank. At the root of my mind was money and pride.
I Wonder If I Was Really Bullied?
Among the students in my class, I became an incomprehensible child, and if classmates had any questions while studying, they would come and ask, but no one came near me as a friend. Seeing such “friends”, I, too, slowly closed my heart and sometimes didn’t answer my friends’ questions.
Happy Mother and Wife, Overcoming Depression
I was married 20 years ago. It was the busy courtship that made me give up my desire to live alone. The freedom that I gave up slowly became a battle of endurance. It was at that time I believed that trading freedom for family would make me a better person. While time passed me by, I remember watching my husband busy at work while I became increasingly lonely and forgotten.
I Became Free From Jealousy And Competitive Mind Through This Meditation
I’ve always been jealous and competitive since childhood. Born as the eldest son in my family, my grandfather always taught me that I should always live a successful life. My mother also had a different expectation from me than my brothers. My brothers never had any tutors, but for me, my parents always gave me the opportunity of having a tutor.
The Stress Of Raising My Children Has Completely Vanished
As a child, my family was very poor. My father, a fisherman, drank a lot of alcohol so he often quarreled with my mother. They often fought about money because the cost of raising their children was stressful. I was worried that I made things harder because I was born, so I constantly walked on eggshells around my parents and endured any discomforts I felt.
Oh, My Father. Now I Am Able To See Things With My Heart
I couldn’t get along with my friends because I had been anxious and serious all the time. But, as I cleanse my minds more, my friends start to recognize my change, and they told me that my face got much brighter and smiley. I used to be hot-tempered, but now I don’t get mad on anything, but laugh more.
